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Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

dawngarcia — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 15:16:20 -0000

Nothing quite like honesty or the intoxication of sensuality :) Words and openness are the only real way to figure any of this out! You definitely have an interesting perspective on finding oneself and being brave enough to actually look directly INTO the mirror and see your faults and flaws as character and beauty (as it should be).

And men - even the boys - don't overdo any of it. Just relax and you'll get much further!

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

ASKJDOG — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 05:38:00 -0000

Thanks for the honest and insightful comment.. men listen up to what Dawn is saying here! ..and perhaps I've read your website too.. fascination encounter you had there! Cheers.. J!

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

dawngarcia — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 16:03:24 -0000

It's easy to live in a world continually flooded with the ideas of perfection. We all fall victim to it - the simple smile of a man, the mystique of his eyes but for me, personally, no matter how beautiful or - un-beautiful he is, if he lacks confidence or poise, tact or wit it is near impossible to see past any of it. There is something to say about a man who isn't afraid to expose himself (and no, I don't mean whippin it out) BUT men, this doesn't mean cry every time you see a Hallmark commercial or acting like a teenager. It simply means being a little more you - find your talents and trust me, having a kickass body only gets you so far when you're looking for actual substance. You want to get laid? Absolutely show us those abs. You want someone who's going to sit there when you had a really shitty day at work and tell you, "ya know what? Who cares. Tomorrow we all get another chance". And kiss you and grab a glass and share some wine or beer or a little caress. It's often the simplest of things and the older you get, the more drama you see (and trust me men, you're full of drama too) you start to see what matters. I know it's hard for you guys - women these days are really shallow and sadly, not all that sharp. They think of only immediacies like money or power or how they can "look" better by being with you. I get it. Thankfully I am not that way and while they all try to beat down the door, the one that's actually going to get in, isn't going to be a dick. Certainly not to me. At his job, when he's conquering the world - he can be whatever he wants. But with me: I need to feel like I can say I need a night alone and know he's not going to get all bent out of shape and know when he needs the same, I'll be happy to give it. and I also need to know we can talk about anything and have fun and just live life. And yes, I want to be ravished sometimes. I'm human. And primal. Hey - We're all human. And we're all flawed. What is actually beautiful is belief in yourself. You are only as amazing as you want to be and everything in this life is a choice. Even when shit happens and our hearts get shattered, the way we handle it is what is up to us. It can be fuel to give you strength to be the best version of yourself or it can lose you. I personally will never let life's hardships or relationship woes mistreat me for too long. I have to believe I'm only going to be better at the end of it. So shed your tears, feel a little down and then look at that mirror and start seeing the beauty in yourself. When you see it, we all see it. And I mean the beauty with substance, not just physical 'hotness". Would be a good start for all of us!

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

Jesse Charger — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 11:09:57 -0000

I find it depends a lot on what you do how much you like yourself. If you've hit the gym, got some sun, accomplished something you feel more likable. If you ate a pizza watching old movies for 10 hours you feel like crap. Your emotions will flow from your motions. Thanks Jdog, great post.

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

Ryan — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:10:51 -0000

Yeah shaanz. This whole world is vibrational. It freeking awsome. Energy flows where the attention goes. Your words are vibration, along with music as well.You interpret vibration as "it must be true then". So if you visualized the best, listened to good music(classical), told yourself things that you would want to hear and be true, then you would make some real deep changes which would really effect your outer world. You arent lieing to yourself either, you are being a creator and creating your own truth.

Yeah, its an exciting thing to change your results by telling yourself things in the mirror and listening to beautiful music. You just feel more powerful and a sense of more control!

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

shaanz — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:54:17 -0000

That is one of the most exciting things I've read..
I've always found it difficult to find the beauty in me
Sounds like magic..If I look in the mirror and see my beauty,
others will too?
I am going to do it everyday and see for myself..
Thanks for inspiring me.

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

Ryan — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 04:34:22 -0000

My experience with beauty is a metaphysical type of thing. I read books from Masaru Emoto. What he does is he freezes water and labels them with words. Long story short. The frozen water with positive words are beautiful beautiful crystals; negative words, cant even form a crystal. This is looked at under a high powered microscope.

Well, I called myself beautiful and listened to classical music for about a week, and I start getting alot of looks from aota women. I ended up with a 9 girlfriend. Everyday I would call myself beautiful in the mirror and really feel it. What happened was that girls started to tell me I had a perfect face and that I was pretty/beautiful.

Quantum physics or what!!!!!!!!

I believe the water in my body changed, which changed the structure of my face.

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

ASKJDOG — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:23:02 -0000

I wasn't too sure about putting that in there.. thnx

Re: Find Something Beautiful About Yourself

T. AKA Ricky Raw — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 12:53:56 -0000

Adding a pic of Michael Jackson to this piece was awesome. Made the point really hit home.